Well I started talking to this guy around two years ago and liked him from the start but he told me I was too young for him and that if I was older he would be with me. Well me being young and dumb had a friends with benefits with him. Since the pass two yrs we had grown close to were it was basically a relationship without the title. Our family thinks we should get together or that we already are but hes always said that he couldnt see us being together. I really loved this guy so I wold just let it go and continue how things were.

Then just a couple of days ago he called me and we had talked for hrs about the idea of us being together and how he hate me cuse he felt that he needed me in his life and that we were compatible. So when he asked me to be with him I excitedly said yes and things were great till the morning.

He had called me the nexting morning and told me he was drinking and doing drugs and I seriously couldnt tell!!! So when he told me " uhh I cant believe I got with you" I was pissed! I told him everything he told me and said I cant believe I said those things. So me being angry told him "well if you break up with me Im not going to talk to you anymore cause its your own supid fault you said what you said" So well the next day he called me and told me not to get mad but he didnt want to be but he would give it a try for a week and see how things go. Well next thing I know that was the last time he called me. Two days have passed and Ive called him plenty of time on that day and he never returned my calls. SO Im guessing that he just gave up and took off knowing that I was going to do that if it didnt work out.

So now my question is should I try to get a hold of him again? or should I just wait? or forget about him?
I really loved him and its actually something I never would have expected from him being more mature about things


Thanks

get rid of him, now if not sooner!

What an *insert very bad swear word here.*

Such a cowardly thing to do too.

Better off without him.... im with belle on this one for sure.

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i think in love we use our heart before engaging our head...

Chasity_002....my advice is you need to believe in yourself! Start taking control of your life and stop being the VICTIM. Ignore people like this guy you are so upset about. and don't give this jerk another moment of you thought
Try to stand up for yourself and don't let this person see it bothers you, he will continue to treat you the same way. By ignoring him, you don't have to react to his rude actions and comments

You're doing the right thing in kicking him to the curb.  He's already cheated on you twice- how could you possibly think he could change from that? This guy has proven that he is manipulative and untrustworthy. 

However, you have to accept that it's time to cut the cord.  If you keep talking to him, he's just going to keep making you feel miserable about yourself.  It's time to ignore him- don't respond to his messages, because he is only going to keep hurting you.  Time will help you get over him.  It's to be expected that you're still hurting, but the more time and space you give yourself, the better you will feel.

Good luck.