Long story short Im adpoted My grandparents were the ones the adpoted me and ive known all my life that I am and I know who my bio parents are. Me and my bio mom dont get along at all...I havent spoken to my bio father since 2003 (christmas time) He found out that I have gotton married and have a 1 yr old son now since the last time we spoke. He wants to be part of my life now and part of my sons life, but I am scared to let him have a relanship with all of us, in the past he has said alot of hurtful things and I dont know if I can ever forgive. But he wants to try and make things right after 5 years.
He is going to be calling me and I am worried-scared to talk to him. He is saying he feel bad for the things he has said and he has done to me. Im 23 and only have met him once in my life that I can remember. When I was 4 he had a drinking and driving accident (he was a heavy drinker and drug user) He is a quadriplegic he is in a wheel chair and cant read write feed himself nothing He lives in a home...when he talks its very hard to understand him so his worker is that one that will help him if I cant understand.

Im scared that I am going to get hurt again he keeps asking me to forgive him but Im finding it really hard to do that. Does anyone have any advice...