The good thing is....you can't really go wrong with black. I think the bed should be able to go with anything (or at least by what i'm picturing in my head)...so if you end up with a dresser set that you love that's not black....you can't really mess up.  If for some reason you don't like the way the black side tables go with...say a new dark wood desk....then you could alwasy drape a clear shawl over them..then place your lamp, alarm, ect. on top of that. Whatever color best suits your room.....and it will destract the eye from the black.