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geminileo Ex Member	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #75 - Jul 31^st, 2006 at 11:44am It's kinda sad how people are forced to take drastic measure to look beautiful and be accepted by others, by emptying out their life savings towards enhancements, like surgeries and lasers and all that. What the others fail to see is personalities and the real sides of the people.
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Devil With The Black Dress On Ex Member	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #76 - Jul 31^st, 2006 at 11:01pm ^ Well... People do change.
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Jadeeda Guru Offline Posts: 1508 Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #77 - Aug 1^st, 2006 at 1:33am Devil, Maintaining personality is within your control and at no cost. But for maintaining looks or to get beautiful, one may have to resort to extremes like cosmetic surgeries.
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Reply #78 - Aug 24^th, 2006 at 10:07am

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It's kinda sad how people are forced to take drastic measure to look beautiful and be accepted by others, by emptying out their life savings towards enhancements, like surgeries and lasers and all that. What the others fail to see is personalities and the real sides of the people.

Why? I'm all for it...if something about your face makes you unhappy you can change it...best money I ever spent. I am NOT growing old gracefully - I don't want wrinkles.....Nature is our ENEMY!

The first thing people notice about you are your looks. There's a lot of all this about inner beauty...well, I don;t get it. I've never met a man who had any - excluding a couple of my friends, who are also good looking outside.

However - I'm so glad there are so many people I know too lazy to do anything about themselves...I love having nice FAT female friends...they make me look so much better. Shallow? You bet....

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Reply #79 - Aug 26^th, 2006 at 1:14am

As long as you can convince yourself that you're pretty, I think that's all that matters. There are gorgeous girls out there that think they're ugly and mediocre girls that think they're the best thing since sliced bread. So, really, I think it has to do with your frame of mind. Of course, "pretty" is also SUBJECTIVE.

Plastic surgery is fine, if that's what you want to do. Heck, you can ALWAYS get what you don't like "fixed." That's what my mom always says. If you don't like it, don't worry about it -- fix it! The thing is don't forget about the INSIDE. You may have the most beautiful face in the world, but if YOU don't think so, then it doesn't do you any good. You'll just be a beautiful girl who FEELS so ugly. And don't forget there is ALWAYS someone prettier, better, smarter, thinner -- whatever!

Don't let someone ELSE's judgement of you get you down -- WHY would you give them THAT MUCH power over you? If someone puts you down, it's just to pump themselves up. There is no other reason.

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Mo- Guru Offline Eliphino Posts: 1060 Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #80 - Aug 26^th, 2006 at 3:41am Quote: I dont think anyone honestly feels beautiful. Its a girl thing. shes right.
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Mojo Jojo Guru Offline You're a heart attack, just the kind I like Posts: 7429 the Vanishing Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #81 - Aug 26^th, 2006 at 3:49am Quote: Thinking you're pretty is easier said than done. I still can't do it. I thought you said you thought you were pretty?
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Devil With The Black Dress On Ex Member	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #82 - Aug 26^th, 2006 at 3:42pm ^ I lie to myself sometimes. I never really believe myself. It's kind of confusing to explain. Have you ever heard the phrase "Fake it 'til you make it"?
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Reply #83 - Aug 26^th, 2006 at 8:53pm

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^ I lie to myself sometimes. I never really believe myself. It's kind of confusing to explain. Have you ever heard the phrase "Fake it 'til you make it"?

I know what you're talking about. Keep it up, cause it WORKS! Just like NEGATIVE self-talk works! When you want to look in the mirror and say "Yuck" instead say "I look great!" or "I'm beautiful" -- definitely isn't going to hurt anything and could (should!) help!~

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Mojo Jojo Guru Offline You're a heart attack, just the kind I like Posts: 7429 the Vanishing Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #84 - Aug 26^th, 2006 at 9:55pm Haha just checking. Positive self talk is great..it can actually work. Something about the subconscious mind. I tell myself I'm beautiful too and some days I believe it, some days I don't but it doesn't hurt to say it anyway.
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Reply #85 - Aug 26^th, 2006 at 11:22pm

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There are gorgeous girls out there that think they're ugly and mediocre girls that think they're the best thing since sliced bread.

Damn right I am. Wink

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Reply #86 - Sep 9^th, 2006 at 1:12am

No matter who thinks they are ugly, they are also beautiful too. I've noticed people usually think that they are ugly because of a feature on themsleves, or an imperfection. They usually see these things only, but they don't see the nice features about them. For example, you may think your ugly because some pimples or your flat as a board, but have you ever noticed that head of thick, gorgeous hair? Or that smile that brightens up everyones day? You never know, someone may be falling in love with that smile!

Instead of finding out what imperfections you have or what makes you "ugly"?, Find out what makes you stand out! Everyone has good features! It may be those big blue eyes, or flawless skin, or long toned legs. You will be happier if you focus on the good than depress about what you think is ugly.

I can't tell you to get over it, or to accept yourself, just like that! I know it's not easy! Trust me! You've probably been told if you accept yourself, you'll be happier. Ofcourse this is true, but it dosen't come overnight.

Just focus on the great things about youself, the things that make you, you!

Good Luck!

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Pomander_ Guru Offline live, live, live. Posts: 3321 Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #87 - Oct 2^nd, 2006 at 3:20pm When i'm feeling totally ugly and insecure and gross ( and I don't know ANYONE who doesnt have days like that), I like to pretend I'm a celebrity, like lindsay lohan or someone. It can boost your confidence, make you feel prettier. works for me anyway...
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Pomander_ Guru Offline live, live, live. Posts: 3321 Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #88 - Oct 2^nd, 2006 at 3:23pm ^^ Also if you like to draw, you could draw a selfportrait of yourself, accentuating all your best features. then, when you feel yucky, just look at the picture and remind yourself how pretty you are
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Reply #89 - Oct 2^nd, 2006 at 5:28pm

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No matter who thinks they are ugly, they are also beautiful too. I've noticed people usually think that they are ugly because of a feature on themsleves, or an imperfection. They usually see these things only, but they don't see the nice features about them. For example, you may think your ugly because some pimples or your flat as a board, but have you ever noticed that head of thick, gorgeous hair? Or that smile that brightens up everyones day? You never know, someone may be falling in love with that smile!

Instead of finding out what imperfections you have or what makes you "ugly"?, Find out what makes you stand out! Everyone has good features! It may be those big blue eyes, or flawless skin, or long toned legs. You will be happier if you focus on the good than depress about what you think is ugly.

I can't tell you to get over it, or to accept yourself, just like that! I know it's not easy! Trust me! You've probably been told if you accept yourself, you'll be happier. Ofcourse this is true, but it dosen't come overnight.

Just focus on the great things about youself, the things that make you, you!

Good Luck!

aw thats so sweet,i mean you took the time to post all that and ,it is so so so true.
What I hate it is when people who have some good features ruin it with their personality.

I used to think I was ugly for some reason but then this chinesse man in New York City saw me and auctually ran up to me..oh I'll draw you for cheaper!omg u have the perfect face!" or something like that and i was like wth?! umm...ok and my aunt's always telling me how pretty I am,but I'm like well she's family so ya know it's easy to tune out.but if someone hits on me,i'm like who are they talking to?hm prolly not me or i must be imaging things or something. so I think I'm average to pretty depending on the mood I'm in .lol IMO I don't think anyone should feel ugly because even if they don't look their best that doesn't mean that they are ugly.They just need to work on themselves.and God made them so yea.

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DizzyCow Ex Member	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #90 - Oct 7^th, 2006 at 7:08am well as far as im conserned im beautiful and have my imperfections just like evryone. no one is perfect. but i come close. lol
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jenbroni82 Newbie Offline I love Pioneer Thinking! Posts: 6 charlotte Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #91 - Oct 16^th, 2006 at 2:49pm ok lets just face it,we've all seen them, there;s incredibly ugly people out there. and you know if you are one of them. and if you say that "everyone has some good features, nobodys ugly" you are one of the pretty ones.. me im ugly, i know it, i live with it. i deal with it.
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Reply #92 - Dec 16^th, 2006 at 10:02pm

I think that no one is ugly in everybodys eyes and no one is pretty in everybodys eyes. People have different percpectives of what they think is good looking and bad looking. I mean there are days I feel ugly and there are days I think I look Good, to me it depends on the mood Im in. I agree with everybody who said personalty affects looks. I really do believe that!

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Mary_Smith Full Member Offline I love Pioneer Thinking Posts: 182	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #93 - Jan 11^th, 2007 at 9:35am I KNOW I am ugly! There's alot going on in my life right now, but as far as looks, I used to be really skinny..and really ugly, then I gained alot of weight, and despite the stigma of being fat I think I looked great and I sure felt better. Now I am a bag of bones again, and really depressed...and ugly....
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pampered_princess Guru Offline Yeeeeeeeeeaaaaa aaaahhhhh! Posts: 1180 Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #94 - Jan 11^th, 2007 at 12:24pm Im ugly.
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Googly-Eyed-Monster Guru Offline I'm back, miss me? Posts: 2619 South-West England Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #95 - Jan 11^th, 2007 at 12:48pm I'm fat and ugly end of story
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life-was-lookin-gd Full Member Offline COOKIES!!!!!! Posts: 241 Somerset Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #96 - Jan 11^th, 2007 at 1:49pm Quote: I'm fat and ugly end of story I'm sorry but you are not ugly! I think that everyone is beautiful in their own way and people who put others down by saying that they are ugly simply cannot deal with that fact!
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Googly-Eyed-Monster Guru Offline I'm back, miss me? Posts: 2619 South-West England Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #97 - Jan 11^th, 2007 at 2:27pm Quote: end of story as I was saying
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LacedWLacie Senior Member Offline "LESBO!?" - My grandfather Posts: 409 Gender:	Re: think you're ugly? Reply #98 - Jan 26^th, 2007 at 2:59am Don't think I'm ugly, it's just everyone else that does Don't care.
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Reply #99 - Jan 26^th, 2007 at 3:01am

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I'm fat and ugly end of story

Girl, you are...

1. Not fat
2. Not ugly

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, even you. You'll feel better about youself. Pshh, fat and ugly, what are you thinking? Roll Eyes

EDIT: It's sad how many of you girls think you are ugly. It's just not true. Honestly, you really have to love yourself to be happy.
Do you ever notice how your eyes just pass the "outstandingly beautiful" people in magazines? How they are all copies and look the same?

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